Do You Have Any Red Flags?

When I divorced and began socializing and dating, I began to develop some red flags.  By red flags, I mean…

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Love as Status or Reward

I’ve been listening to Lindy West reading her book Shrill:  Notes from a Loud Woman,  “Being fat, happy and in…

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High Reactive Introvert (Quiet in a Loud World)

I definitely prefer the “Culture of Character” to the “Culture of Personality” as expressed in Quiet: The Power of Introverts…

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Emotional Control

“If someone’s trying to get you angry, the calmer you get, the angrier they’ll get.” – Valerie Jarrett, presidential advisor…

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Never Choose Silence

Getting in Touch with Your Inner Bitch:  Never choose silence when an issue really matters, or when silence will lead…

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Who is someone you could help achieve their most important resolution?

In the fourth question for the New Year from Ariane de Bonvoisin on Oprah.com, we are asked how to help…

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