Fault and Blame

Getting in Touch with Your Inner Bitch:  “Good women always think it is their fault when someone else is being offensive.  Bad women never take the blame for anything.” – Anita Brookner

What’s the difference between blame and responsibility?  Blame is assigned by other people and responsibility is self-assigned.  The trick is knowing when what you’re feeling is external or internal.  When blame comes with censure, it can be doubly hard to refuse and refute it.  But I intend to practice my ability to be a very bad woman … with integrity.